What to do when wife has really expensive taste?

As the title says I have a bit of a wife problem...

I am trying to DCA my way into an early retirement and have our mortgage payed off but my wife has insanely expensive taste. And this is really impacting the amount I have to DCA into Crypto every week.

I am the primary income maker for my family but she is by far the biggest spender. She always wants to go out to expensive places to eat, has really expensive up keep costs such as her hair and nails done. She is addicted to designer handbags, shopping and clothing, and is angry that we don’t go on vacation enough(we go once a year) and of course all of this is at my expense. And to be Frank I’m not quite sure what to do.

I have tried explaining to her the importance of Crypto investments and it could fast track our financial goals but she doesn’t seem to care. Then most recently she has been bothering me about a new car and insists I take profits from my portfolio(mistake showing her how much I’m up).

So how are you guys dealing with your wives? Are they in support or against your DCA efforts? And any advice for my situation?